Describe the times you see each other each day

Describe 3-5 moods you're likely to be in during each occassion

Make a grid for each occassion with a column (or row) for each mood

Examine each grid square

Describe what you'd want to experience under those circumstances

Look at what each of you put in each square

Find a happy blending of both desires

Write the blended actions on a third (and final) grid

Adhere to the game grid for 2 weeks

Talk to each other about what's working

Make changes to any grid that's not working for both of you

Keep referring to the grid.

Update & Improve it as needed.

Ditch it when you're routinely co-creating joyful daily reunions without it.